{"id":18653,"date":"2024-12-04T16:01:24","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T21:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/12\/self-care\/"},"modified":"2024-12-05T10:54:37","modified_gmt":"2024-12-05T15:54:37","slug":"self-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/12\/self-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Self Care"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>For the record, if it sounds like I&#8217;ve lost my sense of humor, I have. There is nothing funny about any of this, and I&#8217;m keeping my head down and remaining on full defense. Call it Self Care. It&#8217;s not paranoia if they ARE out to fuck you. Trust me, they are out to fuck us. Most of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"612\" height=\"612\" data-attachment-id=\"18645\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/11\/this-is-not-good\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?fit=612%2C612&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"612,612\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?fit=612%2C612&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?fit=612%2C612&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?resize=612%2C612&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18645\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?w=612&amp;ssl=1 612w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/img_20240702_105523_7145570891048877646362.jpg?resize=210%2C210&amp;ssl=1 210w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br><br>The next few years are going to be unlike anything we&#8217;ve ever experienced. People we know and love will die. Women. Children. Trans kids. Refugees. Journalists who dare report the truth.<br>All Unnecessarily. <br><br>People are going to lose their freedom for standing up for what is right, against a completely corrupted government with zero tolerance for dissent. There will be protests in the streets, and violence when Trump sends the military against the protestors. I&#8217;ll keep speaking out, like this. Until it becomes too dangerous, or they come for someone I know. Then it&#8217;s war.<br><br>Simply put, if you aren&#8217;t on the right side of history, I don&#8217;t need you in my life. On social media and real life. Friends. Family. ANYONE. If you&#8217;re still cluelessly sitting on the fence, YOU ARE on the wrong side. I might try to school ya, but only if it doesn&#8217;t cause me too much stress and pain. It&#8217;s easier to block and ignore.<br>Like I said: Self care.<br><br>This is a hill I will die on, figuratively, but also literally if they come for people I care about. If you didn&#8217;t vote, voted 3rd party, voted for Trump, you are on your own. Because you voted to hurt people. This isn&#8217;t just about political party, it&#8217;s about morality. It isn&#8217;t just politics. This is basically America&#8217;s moment of Truth. Our own little custom Armageddon, and ironically, the Church is on the wrong side. Maybe it&#8217;s because they aren&#8217;t reading their Bibles. Or maybe they are, and they&#8217;re actively working with the Orange Anti-Christ to make it a reality&#8230;to force Jesus to come back or some dumbass bs. <br>Don&#8217;t misunderstand me. I&#8217;m not getting all religious. I do believe in a greater power, but i don&#8217;t think Jesus is coming to save us. I think we need to save ourselves. I&#8217;m just pointing out the obvious similarities between Revelations and Reality here, while knowing there are other, more tangible explanations for them.<br><br>Look. Above all, this is about defending myself, the people I love, and all the good people who value the Truth, from harm. Keeping the pain as far away as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It hurts to talk to certain family members. So I don&#8217;t. I won&#8217;t.&nbsp; That&#8217;s the simple truth. They&#8217;ve become immoral and represent everything I detest about America. About Humanity. I may love them, but I have no room for that negative energy in my life. No room at all. It just brings me pain. And right now, I&#8217;m not looking for that in my world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know what I&#8217;m about to say. <br \/>Self care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"980\" height=\"1307\" data-attachment-id=\"18600\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/05\/you-dirty-commies\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?fit=1500%2C2000&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1500,2000\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?fit=980%2C1307&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?resize=980%2C1307&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?w=1500&amp;ssl=1 1500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/selfportrait2024-jg8465886119025288900.jpeg?resize=158%2C210&amp;ssl=1 158w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 980px) 100vw, 980px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the record, if it sounds like I&#8217;ve lost my sense of humor, I have. There is nothing funny about any of this, and I&#8217;m keeping my head down and remaining on full defense. Call it Self Care. It&#8217;s not paranoia if they ARE out to fuck you. Trust me, they are out to fuck [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":[]},"categories":[582,729,586,756,648,672,589,565,561,609,606,587,588,690,585,600,686,687,608,620],"tags":[762,593,743,596,96,562,613,594,595,691,592,612,744,523,21,521,82],"class_list":["post-18653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","hentry","category-blog-2","category-civilrights","category-editorial-2","category-elections","category-firstamendment","category-history","category-imo","category-jamiegray","category-jfs","category-journalism","category-justthinking","category-moregray","category-myopinion","category-n0h8","category-opinion-3","category-politics-2","category-religion","category-spirituality","category-trump","category-twoamericas","tag-billionaires","tag-editorial","tag-elections","tag-imo","tag-jamiegray","tag-jfs","tag-journalism","tag-moregray","tag-myopinion","tag-n0h8","tag-opinion","tag-trump","tag-twoamericas","tag-blog","tag-history","tag-politics","tag-religion","post_format-post-format-image"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":18634,"url":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/10\/oops\/","url_meta":{"origin":18653,"position":0},"title":"Oops","date":"October 18, 2024","format":"image","excerpt":"It probably wasn't what I said. 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