{"id":18597,"date":"2024-05-29T20:58:02","date_gmt":"2024-05-30T00:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/?p=18597"},"modified":"2024-05-29T20:58:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-30T00:58:02","slug":"success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2024\/05\/success\/","title":{"rendered":"Success"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A long time ago, somebody asked me what I thought being successful meant. Since then, I&#8217;ve thought it meant a lot of different things over the years. I&#8217;m still not really sure I&#8217;ll ever feel like my life&#8217;s been a success. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if I fail, I&#8217;ve failed the way I wanted to. I made the best choices I could at the time. Things came out this way, and that&#8217;s the way it is. I&#8217;m still here. I&#8217;m loved. I&#8217;d call it success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the end, I&#8217;d like to be known for making the world a better place. I&#8217;ll settle for not being known for fucking the place up royally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being unknown is ok too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"848\" height=\"1273\" data-attachment-id=\"18273\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2021\/08\/or-1-n-big-9-s-8-brother-a-4-well\/attachment\/16284496871162667057778462641297\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?fit=848%2C1273&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"848,1273\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?fit=682%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?fit=848%2C1273&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?resize=848%2C1273&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18273\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?w=848&amp;ssl=1 848w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?resize=682%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 682w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?resize=768%2C1153&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/16284496871162667057778462641297.jpg?resize=140%2C210&amp;ssl=1 140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 848px) 100vw, 848px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Jamie Gray &#8211; musician, writer, human being<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Authors Note: All opinions expressed here are just that: opinions. If you don&#8217;t like mine, I probably won&#8217;t like yours either. Let&#8217;s just nod, and walk away. Maybe come back with solutions instead of opinions. Because of the two, only solutions actually matter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the end, I&#8217;d like to be known for making the world a better place. 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