{"id":17193,"date":"2018-12-26T16:13:26","date_gmt":"2018-12-26T21:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/?p=17193"},"modified":"2018-12-26T16:13:26","modified_gmt":"2018-12-26T21:13:26","slug":"remembering-john-perry-barlow-the-25-principles-of-adult-behavior","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jamiegraymusic.com\/wordpress\/2018\/12\/remembering-john-perry-barlow-the-25-principles-of-adult-behavior\/","title":{"rendered":"Remembering John Perry Barlow: The 25 Principles Of Adult Behavior"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><img src='https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.jambase.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/rip-john-perry-barlow.jpg?w=980&#038;ssl=1' style='max-width:600px;' data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<div>Barlow was not only an inspired songwriter, but also a huge human being, whom we lost in 2018&#8230;way, WAY too soon. Below, his inspired coming of age list of principles to live by, &#8220;Principles Of Adult Behavior&#8221;. I double dog dare you to refute even one. <\/p>\n<p>Principles Of Adult Behavior<br \/>\n1. Be patient. No matter what.<br \/>\n2. Don\u2019t bad-mouth: Assign responsibility, not blame. Say nothing of another you wouldn\u2019t say to him.<br \/>\n3. Never assume the motives of others are, to them, less noble than yours are to you.<br \/>\n4. Expand your sense of the possible.<br \/>\n5. Don\u2019t trouble yourself with matters you truly cannot change.<br \/>\n6. Expect no more of anyone than you can deliver yourself.<br \/>\n7. Tolerate ambiguity.<br \/>\n8. Laugh at yourself frequently.<br \/>\n9. Concern yourself with what is right rather than who is right.<br \/>\n10. Never forget that, no matter how certain, you might be wrong.<br \/>\n11. Give up blood sports.<br \/>\n12. Remember that your life belongs to others as well. Don\u2019t risk it frivolously.<br \/>\n13. Never lie to anyone for any reason. (Lies of omission are sometimes exempt.)<br \/>\n14. Learn the needs of those around you and respect them.<br \/>\n15. Avoid the pursuit of happiness. Seek to define your mission and pursue that.<br \/>\n16. Reduce your use of the first personal pronoun.<br \/>\n17. Praise at least as often as you disparage.<br \/>\n18. Admit your errors freely and soon.<br \/>\n19. Become less suspicious of joy.<br \/>\n20. Understand humility.<br \/>\n21. Remember that love forgives everything.<br \/>\n22. Foster dignity.<br \/>\n23. Live memorably.<br \/>\n24. Love yourself.<br \/>\n25. Endure.<\/p>\n<p>#JohnPerryBarlow #RIP2018<\/p>\n<p>The Article &#8216;Remembering John Perry Barlow: The 25 Principles Of Adult Behavior&#8217; originally appeared on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jambase.com\/article\/john-perry-barlow-25-principles-of-adult-behavior\">https:\/\/www.jambase.com\/article\/john-perry-barlow-25-principles-of-adult-behavior<\/a><br \/>\nJamie&#8217;s comments are his own.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Barlow was not only an inspired songwriter, but also a huge human being, whom we lost in 2018&#8230;way, WAY too soon. Below, his inspired coming of age list of principles to live by, &#8220;Principles Of Adult Behavior&#8221;. I double dog dare you to refute even one. Principles Of Adult Behavior 1. Be patient. 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